Names Reveal Our Inner Thoughts and Beliefs

So what is in a name? Trivially a name should be nothing more than a cluster of letters for physical tagging and identity. But the reality is that names mean different things to different people. Some people plug names for the kids from fancy magazines and novels. Others give their kids names that are of sentimental value. While some parents just want sexy names that is not only a mouthful but rhythmic both in pronunciation and spelling.

Mothers know much about names they give to their children than anybody else. Take for example this psychiatrist who was conducting a group therapy session with four young mothers and their small children. Her preliminary assessment directed her to a common thread of individual obsession with something among the mothers which manifested itself in the names they gave their respective kids.

On entering the room she declared to all the four mothers "you all have obsessions."

To the first mother, she said, "You are obsessed with eating. You've even named your daughter Candy."

She then turned to the second Mom. "Your obsession is with money. Again, it manifests itself in your child's name, Penny."

She turns to the third Mom. "Your obsession is alcohol. This too manifests itself in your child's name, Brandy."

At this point, the fourth mother gets up, takes her little boy by the hand and whispers, "Come on, Dick, we're leaving."

The Stress of Keeping a Parallel Spouse

Men come in all shapes and shades. But one thread running through their obtuse ego is propensity to have own a spare flame besides the official missus. So what drives to chase extra hearts even when what they own appears too hot and sweet to betray? Well it starts and ends with men being big boys and the conquering mentality.

Remove men from the celebrity circles and the tabloids specializing on exposing elicit romance will definitely fold. Men’s king size ego appear designed to always want more and the more flesh a man samples goes along way to messaging all facets of that ego. Leaves you wondering whether the male species have a heart or what resides inside their chest is a fist-sized organ simply programmed to involuntarily pump blood and keep him alive, period.

Married men are the most calculative creatures standing on two limbs. They shop for bonus knowing well that their fixed deposit is guaranteed to earn interest since the day he pledged I do. Any woman willing to play into his hand will find a cunning soul alloyed with experience albeit gained from an official rival. But again the whole drama can be reduced to men insatiable appetite to eat both chicken and the egg. Our patriarch society and mind frame removes any element of shame but instead makes even schooled men fall back to primitive practices like justifying polygamy.

Emotional plurality
It is a man’s world so they say. And it appears Adam’s descendants are taking that literally and very far. Well, to be fair for every randy man out there is a willing sissy ready to play along. But come to think of it two wrongs never made a right and men must take their emotional responsibilities as serious as they secure their wallets. All the gloomy faces gracing our streets are products of stunted romance in our homes. Love is a process and our men must invest time and resources in nurturing.

Emotional plurality is too an expensive venture for anybody who doesn't own the world bank. Emotional bliss is one thing that anybody is capable of cultivating provided you work on it. There is no free lunch and you either work for it or miss out and hawk your projection any willing depression with attendant grave consequences. Keeping parallel wives is one expensive distraction any responsible man must avoid at all costs. It is not only stupid but FATAL to entertain shimo mbaya ni ya nyoka mentality.

Package Your Emotions in Pasionate Kiss

A kiss is probably the most used and abused emotional expression of all. Either we do it for all the wrong reasons or simply mess our lips by wetting other’s cheeks and lips too. A right kiss timed and placed rightly can win you the passport into anybody’s heart. So what do we know about kissing?

Turning the wrong side of the head to receive a kiss is the genesis of losing out. If not sure just revert to the conventional, tried and tested, turn your head to the right when kissing. While at it be very clear on when to kiss and when to end the passion and affection at a simple peck. The difference may be sublime to the uninitiated but a peck if often more romantic than working your lips. And why not save energy for a rainy day when a simple peck uses two muscles while a passionate kiss on the other hand uses all 34 muscles in your face?

Emotional etiquette demands less rigour and more passion. Next time you want to interlock your lips passionately mean it and do it with your eyes CLOSED. For good measure make the impression last for a lifetime because just like fingerprints or snowflakes, no two lip impressions are similar. So get on with it, work your lips and draw all the attendant benefits.

There is more to a glowing skin than just moisturizers. Research has proved that the act of smooching improves your skin, helps circulation, prevents tooth decay, and can even relieve headaches. Moreover kissing is proved to release the same neurotransmitters in our brains as parachuting So there you have free medication dispensed by the lips. So stop being a slave to traditional constraints indulge and sample the beauty and sweetness from the right lips. What is more, an average person spends about 2 weeks (336 hours) of his or her life kissing.

It is within your powers to improve your personality using the most lethal organ lying between your chin and nose. Let the fear of not doing it right enslave you, practice makes perfect. If anything the average woman is known to kiss almost 30 men before she gets married. And men who kiss their partners before leaving for work average higher incomes than those who don’t. So go lips go and make history by interlocking longest.